Evan dipping his toes in the ocean for the first time ever! Look at me now, NICU doctors and nurses! I just can't be stopped!
My "at the beach" outfit that mom picked out. I have swim trunks, a surfer shirt (that really ended up being a hunky belly shirt) and a beach bum hat! I loved the beach.
The boys both needed a bath, so we thought, what the heck...a bath together would be fun! I think they agreed!
Evan, Paul, Misty, Mandy, Andy, and Davin in the ocean at the beach in Punta Gorda, Florida
We had such a wonderful time in Florida, visiting Paul's mom and stepdad, Sheila and John. John has been enduring a second occurance of leukemia, and will undergo a second bone marrow transplant in the near future. As that takes a pretty nasty toll on a person, we knew he'd be unable to travel any time soon and all of us flew down to Port Charlotte, FL to spend time with Grandpa John and Grandma Sheila. By all of us I mean Paul, Evan, and I; Andy, Mandy, & Davin, and Paul and Mandy's brother, Matt. So, five adults and two carseats with exceptionally cute babies in them, piled into a rented minivan and drove two hours down the gulf to their beautiful home in Port Charlotte, FL. We went to the beach, did some shopping, ate out a couple times, ate in a couple times, took a sunset cruise on a small boat, visited with some family of Paul's (Aunt Dannee and Uncle Steve, his cousin David and wife Carla with their kids Brianna and Jacob).
Brianna and Evan have a whole lot in common, as she was born at only 24 weeks gestation due to Carla having preeclampsia. Brianna was born at only 1 lb. 3 oz. and spent nearly 5 months in the NICU in Indianapolis at Riley Hospital. You'll see a picture of her and Evan together with this post. She is truly a miracle, never experiencing any brain bleeding, cerebral palsy, or lasting effects of her prematurity. She did have a monitor like Evan's, and was on oxygen for quite a long time once coming home, but now she's a happy, healthy six year old girl. Its interesting to look at her when you know the subtle facial characteristics that many micro-preemies have, you can sort of pick them out. If you look at the picture and compare her and Evan, you can see that their faces are structured alike. Their cheeks are chubby not out to the sides, but the chub comes forward. Their eyes are placed slightly in the same place, and their chins are the same. This is because she also had what the nurses affectionately called "toaster head." Preemies that spend so much time lying down on their sides have thinner faces and elongated heads for some time until their soft bones shift and develop while they grow and gain more weight. It is encouraging to see that Brianna has a full, filled out face now as a young child. While we remember Evan having "toaster head," his has definitely nearly corrected itself, but he has not been spared a crooked head from preferring to lie on his right side! Maybe you think its insensitive to say that, but I'm perfectly comfortable pointing it out because if that's all we got from his extreme prematurity, then I'm thrilled to death!
Anyhow, getting to speak with her mother Carla and visit with Brianna was a highlight for me, as it is very difficult to find other parents of preemies like Evan who appear to have only mild effects of the circumstances of their birth.
We had the greatest time with Andy and Mandy and Davin, and visiting with Sheila and John. They seem to be in great spirits despite the difficulty of dealing with a long-term illness, for John as well as for Sheila as a caregiver. Sheila helps John take care of his PICC line (a semi-permanent IV line) each evening. John isn't behaving as he should (as any man would) mostly because he works in the yard outside, and generally won't just stay put and rest!
We had an awesome time at the beach, of which there are pictures posted, and Evan and Davin had a great time getting to know each other better. Davin is extremely fond of Evan, and wants nothing more than to touch him and squeeze him and love on him. He couldn't get enough of him, watched him all the time, and even shared a bath with him! Mandy said that he's still looking for him, from checking out all of the other strollers at their airport once they landed in Nashville, to trying to get to his picture on their computer screen. I'm sure if Evan could tell us the way Davin can, that he'd do the same.
Evan seems to be doing so many more things now, just after the week of our vacation. He seems so much more alert, he loves to stand up, he's making more faces, and he even tried cereal while we were at Grandma's! He wants to be like his cousin Davin.
This is an incredibly long post, so I'm going to cut it short. Enjoy our pictures!
